In the first part of the article, we discussed some of the problems that may arise in sexual relationships between men and women. We presented the first three reasons which could provoke aversion and withdrawal of men from women. Now, we are going to put forward other improper acts in bed.
Do not try to assess him. This is not a competition or race. Do not compare him to former friends and do not make assessments particularly comparative ones. No man and woman would be pleased to listen constantly to the incredible skills of previous intimate partner.
Do not do it loudly. Do not let yourself scream and shout during sex when you are in the house of his parents. Although they are only on the floor below and there is no chance you hear. Just thought that you could be heard by his parents could embarrass him and to forget why he took off his clothes. Also, stories of the sort that at any time someone could come in, wouldn’t predispose him in the best way.
Be careful what names you mention in the bed. Be careful not to cry out the name of another man while you in bed together. It would be the greatest fiasco. Actually, this is the fastest way to finish with the love foreplay. Experience shows that this man reacts instantly. So be careful, and do not let such a boner for anything in the world unless you deliberately want to finish what you started.
Do not simulate and don’t aggrandize yourself. Do not pretend that you reach orgasm. Men never pretend to have an erection. Believe there is anything more unpleasant and offensive thing to understand that your partner simulates and that you really do not give him any pleasure. Be honest with him and if so, you should lead him in the in sexual intercourse in a manner you both achieve high satisfaction.
Do not light a cigarette when he is ready for action. Don’t light a cigarette when he is erected. Usually it means “Wait me to smoke my cigarette”, which is not definitely the most stimulating action. Even you may seriously offend the man beside you. If he is a non smoker, this could instantly make him dress up and leave. Moreover, smoky bed can interfere with the intensity and strength of your partner.
This is part of the common mistakes in bed made by women and young girls. Maybe if you look in detail at the behaviour of your partner, you might notice more. And you also find his mistakes. Don’t be embarrassed to guide him on your sexual desires this will improve your sexual relationships.
Posted on April 16th, 2010 by Dimitrius
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What not to do in bed Part One
Have you ever been alone with your partner in bed, looking for intimate sexual contact and caress, but fact the man next to you is not particularly willing or his desire has gradually evaporated. Have I done anything wrong? Have I said anything which made him withdraw? Or maybe you are not enough interesting anymore.
Indeed, that lack of sexual desire and enthusiasm is very often due to some minor mistakes that women consciously or not allowed in their sexual relationship with the beloved one. Sometimes they feel so secure in love of their halves to such an extent , that allow themselves to say and do things, that are not the most intriguing and enticing .At first glance, the frustration and negative attitude of the man towards your itchy words at him is not obvious. Negativity is often accumulated in the man and he shows it in the most cherished moment. Explore below described love bugs, which females often make in bed and think about whether you can adjust your behaviours in case you have admitted them.
Never watch TV while you are making love: Do not watch TV above his shoulder while he is putting every effort in his movements. Whatever on TV, and how laud the volume is, even if this is an erotic film, don’t watch it when he is just on the finish line. Keep in mind that any distraction at this point might totally kill your man’s desire.
Do not let yourself talk about things from your previous relationships. Do not tell him about things related to intimacy you had with the previous boyfriend. Do not tell him that your former boyfriend had a bigger penis or bigger muscles. Do not talk about the fantastic postures that you had with previous boyfriends but to give him a hint and lead him. Such tales could dethrone the most esteemed male.
Do not mock him. Don’t laugh and make fun of any part of his body, even metaphorically. Especially as for a scar, wound, or something else that distinguishes from others and you find it funny. Each focused attention on one part of his body could distract and make him angry. Better choose another delicate moment when to question him about his experience and the resulting trauma.
The article is continued in Part Two.
Posted on April 12th, 2010 by Dimitrius
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Signs that he is cheating on you – Part Three
In the previous first and second part of the article, we stressed sings which are light and medium in nature, if you notice them in your relationship, you should give a serious consideration because they might be signals that your man starts or is in the beginning of a new connection or depth flirting with another woman. This part will present some of the clearest signs of potential infidelity.
Change in your sexual relations: He is not very concentrated and devoted in sex. You don’t find a particular interest and passion in your sexual relations. You notice a reduction in the number of sexual acts which are usually performed for a specified period. Some of the postures that make the bed, has become apathetic and certainly don’t lead to the same enjoyment for him. Sex with him becomes routine and colourless. You notice a slight shift away from you, which increases with time. Each of these signs is a very serious and you have as soon as possible to take action on them and try to determine what might be the reason and to change the situation.
He behaves strange and unusual: You find his behaviour strange and his taste altered the surrounding environment. He starts to change his views on topics which had diametrically opposed views. You notice how the man next to you is more distracted than usual. He misses important dates and times which you usually remind on a certain date. He forgets the performance of routine duties which had not lapsed. He is often in a higher mood, and he is dreamy. This behaviour should be a clear sign to you that his life has changed significantly.
You find clues: You find traces of lipstick kisses on it and his clothes. You sense a strange smell of another female perfume which certainly you smell more and more frequently.
You notice that some of his clothes are missing from his wardrobe. Coming back home you find out that he had lost part of his clothes. You see that after he had been late, he is dressed improperly, for example: the buttons on his shirt are at variance with the holes, or his unusual clothes are creased and dishevelled. It happens to find another brand condom in his pockets. He begins to lose money in any way and he often can’t meet the usual expenses.
Signs described above not always necessarily mean cheating or flirting with another woman or a younger girl. But in most cases, they are a clear signal that something new and exciting is happening about the man you love, and for which you have not understood for some reason. Either way, if you notice something, you have to pay a serious attention to your relations and seek the reason for the change in his behaviour. And remember, the earlier the easier you will overcome the problem in your relationship. So, don’t wait any longer!
Posted on April 2nd, 2010 by Dimitrius
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Men do not be too cautious, be kind, breaded with words
The language a pair uses, specifies also the climate of their mutual relations. Many people don’t take into account the fact how important is the way they communicate with their beloved one. The ignorance of this fact in particular leads to gradually fading the feelings and obvious estranging and indifference to the personality of the beloved one.
Maybe many of you have asked themselves the question: “What does attract a woman to a man and vice versa – a man to a woman, when they first meet each other?”. The answer is: The charming smile and the ability of the person in front of you to caress delicately with words your self-respect and intellect.
The language for communication used between man and woman serves also for distribution of the power. Often one could observe that men use a harsh and rude language with their better halves. The everyday rude and harsh language is a proof that it could serve as a tool for acquisition of more power, too. With the rude and humiliating words the partner strengthens and maintains his domination over the woman. Many men who use this way of communication forget fully about the soft and loving tune. And this in particular could help you for getting close to her in a delicate way. Besides taking into account her mood and trying to understand the relations between them both additionally could strengthen their feelings and to allow them live their happy moments being together.
Often it is the man who can’t realize that by means of his direct attacks he is creating an atmosphere of fear with his partner. As in this way he makes her unconsciously depress her own emotions and feelings.
It is unbearable for a woman, when the man uses cynical words and clear gestures during a conversation, as well as when he swears with the smallest disapproval.
With words one could caress, but one could manipulate, confuse or insult, too. The language shows the behavior of the person to the world, and of course to his own partner. This is why we should be very careful in what words and expressions we are using in our everyday life. Since it is very easy that the used by us words could harm and insult the person in front of us. It is good when every single man should try to check his dictionary. Whether it is not too rude, violent or insulting. And if this is so, no man should wonder when he feels her partner being far away from him, even if she is physically next to him. The humiliation could be avoided with some more tact and attention to the person next to you. With some skillful movements with the hands this feeling of distance could not be overcome. Rather with words, which caress, love and make the person happy.
Posted on March 31st, 2010 by Dimitrius
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How to flirt in front of her boyfriend – part two
Continued from Part One
… Don’t turn to him and don’t look in his eyes, and if he asks you a question, pretend that you haven’t heard him at all. And continue flattering the girl. If her boyfriend is a loser he would like to avoid confronting you. And if he is perky and aggressive, he would start being provocative. In this moment you should cut him with a phrase, which should make him feel uncomfortable and stupid. This works especially good when you are in a public place. Afterwards you say with a charming smile sorry to the girl about the misunderstanding and you retreat as you very carefully watch her reaction. In this way you would be able to parry the conflict and you should make a good impression to the girl. And when she is left alone depending on her behavior during your retreat you could try another one, but more moderate contact, as you are being rather friendly. And from the moment on when she gives you a sign, you could be more aggressive.
How to impress her if you are in the middle of a big company together with her boyfriend:
If you are a bigger company and you want to flirt with the chick of someone of the people there, you should try to become centre of the company and to dominate over him. To be more funnier, more intelligent and more cute than him in every single aspect. You should continuously try to attract her attention with topics she finds interesting. And from these topics you should be able freely to go to funny stories, which should cheer up the company and make everybody laugh, especially her. At the moment when her boyfriend starts a topic, you should listen to him with attention, but you should try to laugh at this topic in a good moment after that you should shift the topic again to a funny story or a joke, which should make everybody laugh. In the whole time you should try making her feel as a main interlocutor on the topics you are discussing. Try looking her straight in the eyes and to use every passing moment in order to smile at her. This could allow you continuously to get positions of sympathy and to wait for a passing moment, when you should be able to start talking to her and to challenge her in front of everyone in what she is best at. You make her become hotter, as in this way you have an ideal pretext to ask her for her phone number and make a date with her with her where she could prove to you that you could defeat you. Of course this date should be coordinated in a way, that would exclude the presence of her boyfriend, in order to be able to present yourself freely at your best.
The above mentioned three situations are most often met where you have the possibility to flirt successfully with another one’s girlfriend. Of course, not everything depends on you moment date, but if you try presenting yourself better in front of her, you could have a good basis for a further more profound contact, where you could look for greater proximity with her, too.
Posted on March 27th, 2010 by Dimitrius
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