Online dating information – valueable advices

Always try making compliments over the personality. Don’t make compliment about the physical qualities of a girl, if you haven’t got any intimate relations with her. In this way you tell her as if you are not interested at all how smart and funny she is, but her legs are wonderful. Women want to notice first their personal qualities and skills. To evaluate them first as a built up character with their advantages and disadvantages, which could reveal to you their mental beauty and after that they would daze you with their natural gifts.

You should be able to make stylish and delicate compliments. Don’t make a compliment over something, which is awful, for example a bad combination of clothes’ colours. Sometimes women are aware of this, but they haven’t got any other choice. And if you make a compliment in this direction they would get insulted by you. Try to look closer to the details of the girl and to assess with compliments the small, but beautiful features which have taken her much time and attention to form them and to prepare them. The fact that you have noticed the things the girl has made for the date with you is a compliment by itself. Women, just as the men love when one notices and assesses their efforts.

There is no compliment more stupid than the incompetent one.
Don’t make any compliment over things, which you don’t understand. This would make a very unpleasant impression to the woman you are with. If you have to express your own opinion over something you are not good at, you better excuse yourself in advance that you have no necessary knowledge and after that share a moderate but polite opinion on the topic. Otherwise you could get into a very unpleasant and nasty situation and get blamed in front of the woman you want to impress.

Compliment must be said in a friendly way. Be serious or funny depending on the situation, but always be friendly. When you make compliment keep smiling, self-confident and look the girl straight in the eyes. This would strengthen the moment and would make her feel herself even more special. You should not stare at her neckline or at her legs and smile as a simpleton.

One should not overdo with the compliments. Compliment is a heavy and efficient weapon, but the more you use it, the less powerful becomes its effect. One should not overdo with the compliments, otherwise one risks becoming boring. Besides if you don’t stop making compliments, the other should take it as granted and you wouldn’t be able to achieve the necessary effect. In most cases one or two compliments per date are enough especially if they are said in the right moment.

The most important thing is that compliment should bring pleasure to the woman you are went out with. She must feel more beautiful and more wanted and the mood in your conversation to be put to a higher point. The compliment shall make you closer to each other and shall make you more confident in your further activities. Therefore you should not be afraid of making compliments, but do it to a certain extent and in the right moment. As time goes by you should get used to do it without thinking about it and all this shall happen with easiness and very naturally.

Posted on February 16th, 2010 by Dimitrius
Filed under: Advice for boys and men, Advice for datings